Destiny [Locked]

Is there a plan for everything. Is the course of our lives decided by someone else, like God?
Personally, I belive that you make your own destiny, but I want your oppinion on this.

I personally beleive in man has free will to do things, but may be "guided" to sway in one direction. What I mean is, like say you have this decsion, and you dont know what to do, but enventually you have a "feeling" to choose one way, this is what I believe. Made any sense, all seems jumbled together to me

I am very resistant to destiny however some events has led me to believe that destiny does happen. For example, my brother met his wife at high school. If I wasn't deaf, there would be a huge chance that we would never move to Indiana and my brother would never meet his wife. Now is that a coincidence or destiny. I don't know. I don't like the idea I am not in control of my life.

i believe anybody have freewill and fate because sometime, you cant control the events and can control it. When you have choice what you to do. sometime, car hit and you have no control over drunk driver.